How do you let someone go?

It’s truly amazing how a person starts off a stranger and before you know it…they are your best friend, lover, person you look up too or whatever. It can take a while to get there for some and for others it takes no time at all. Some say they just “clicked” or “new it was meant to be”.

They also say people come into your life for a reason & not everyone is meant to stay. I do get that and I have lost/let go of several people. Some I didn’t really think much of it and others may of hurt me for a while but I got over it. Currently, I am really struggling to let go of someone go, who came into my life out of the blue and knocked down my walls. I considered this person family and she walked away from me like there was nothing to it.
I guess I’m struggling with the why? What did I do wrong?

Did she ever really care at all? Why does she not care that she knows I’m hurting and she won’t even give a real explanation? The last couple excuses have been complete bull and she knows it. How do you go from I’ll always be there, you’re like family, thanks for always loving me, thanks for reminding me it’s ok not to be perfect – to – complete silence??I haven’t learned a lesson from this one and i haven’t figured out why she came into my life and then hurt me. Maybe one day I will but for now it’s just another stab to the heart.
I know we all have them so I guess this post is just to remind people that everyone gets hurt.

Just try to stay focused on the here and now (easier said than done; I know). Don’t be petty & do something you’ll regret. Stay true to yourself but don’t allow someone to constantly make you question your worth. Know you’re enough! You shouldn’t have to beg for someone to want to be in your life.

Anonymous