Changes in life are inevitable.I raised 5 children; each one so unique within themselves.
Each one decides the portrayal of themselves in the light of their character to be seen and not seen. Many of us have different hats hanging on the hat rack in the hall.A mom knows what each hat her child owns.All but one. Their very private self, which is completely accepted.Never questioned; never talked about. That is respect for their privacy. I have that respect for my daughter.
Yet, the respect and admiration I have for her has been ignored. Issues I know nothing about have come between us. Very hurtful.I want no more than to support her and let her know I love her, no matter what.
Changes in her character have come between us.
I am now eliminated from her life, for no apparent reason.I have always given her my total support
Mental Awareness and acceptance.
So, I am a victim of her lifestyle changes. “Let me go”
As if I am the problem in her life.
” no” I am just on the outside looking in.
I know her, I let her grow and bloom.I am proud of her accomplishments, except for letting the one person in the world who loves her the most,be tossed out of her life, because it seems she can’t be in a relationship with me, to satisfy another’s wish to be demeaning to me.
I will abide by the rules
except I won’t stop loving her.
There’s no law written for that. The person in her life that disdains me, well, you didn’t “win”. You just hurt yourself.
I won’t be broken.
My love for my daughter cannot be taken away.
You didn’t succeed.
A positive note in the present moment.
My daughter has gone through changes;
But my love for her hasn’t.
Keeping the Faith, while my backbone grows stronger yet.
Thank you.
This experience has enlightened me.