Dear September, i want to tell you about emotional abuse from parents.
#1 what would my younger self say if i knew what was happening?
I think she would say why were you so stupid to believe everything they’ve said? Why didn’t you know what’s was happening? —-> you where a child!!
#2 why has it developed to no acceptance off love/self love ?
Mostly because there was no talking about feelings, not even the tiniest bit. And of course the love you didn’t get from your parents. You’d always try to be super good and extra to get attention or love , you didn’t get it…
#3 now you over 18 how do you feel ?
I feel numb because I can’t accept love, had depressions, self love doesn’t exist!
#4 how are you know orcwhat helped???
Talking, writing and burning the letters , looking in the mirror till you love yourself everyday till you do ! Acceptance off what happened and that it’s the past . And especially knowing –>> IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT!!!! even if you think it is . It’s not because it’s theirs they chose to be like that.
Everyone, everything is worth every bit of love thats existing in the world . If you think not you are WORTHY!!!!